List of things you should say teach your kids.

HERE IS A LIST OF THINGS U NEED 2 TEACH UR CHILD(REN) AT EARLY AGE:

1: Warn your Girl Child Never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles.

2: Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them or yourself.

3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as 'my wife' or 'my husband'

4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now sexually abuse themselves.

5. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.

6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child.

7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values of sex . If you don't, the society will teach them the wrong values.

8: It is always advisable you go through any new Material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves.

9. Ensure you activate parental controls on your cable networks and advice your friends especially those your child(ren) visit(s) often.

10. Teach your 3 year olds how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that
includes you (remember, charity begins from home and with you).

11: Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families).

12. Let your child(ren) understand the value of standing out of the
crowd.

13: Once your child complains about a particular person, don't keep quiet about it.

Take up the case and show them you can defend them.

Remember, we are either parents or parents-to-be.
and remember "THE PAIN LASTS A LIFETIME"

Why you should have a daughter

ಒಂದು ದಿನ ರಾತ್ರಿ ಗಂಡ ಮತ್ತು ಹೆಂಡತಿಯರಲ್ಲಿ ಒಂದು ಪಂದ್ಯವನ್ನ ಹಾಕಿಕೊಂಡರು. ಅದು ಏನೆಂದರೆ ಇವತ್ತು ಯಾರೇ ಬಾಗಿಲು ತಟ್ಟಿದರೂ  ಬಾಗಿಲು ತೆಗೆಯ ಬಾರದು ಎಂದು.

ಪಂದ್ಯಕ್ಕೆ ಹೆಂಡತಿ ಒಪ್ಪಿಕೊಂಡಳು. ಅದರಂತೆಯೆ ಕೋಣೆಯ ಬಾಗಿಲು ಮುಚ್ಚಿಟ್ಟು ಇಬ್ಬರು ನಿಶ್ಯಬ್ದವಾಗಿ ಕುಳಿತಿದ್ದರು.

ಮೊದಲು ಗಂಡನ ಅಪ್ಪ ಮತ್ತು ಅಮ್ಮ ಬಂದು ಬಾಗಿಲನ್ನು ತಟ್ಟಿದರು.ಗಂಡ ಬಾಗಿಲನ್ನ ತೆಗೆಯಲು ಎದ್ದನು, ಅಷ್ಟರಲ್ಲಿ ಪಂದ್ಯ ನೆನಪಿಗೆ ಬಂದು ಕುಳಿತು ಬಿಟ್ಟ.ಅವರು ಸ್ವಲ್ಪ ಸಮಯ ಬಾಗಿಲನ್ನ ತಟ್ಟಿ ಶಬ್ದ ಕೇಳಿಸದೆ ಹೋದಾಗ ಸುಮ್ಮನಾಗಿ ಬಿಟ್ಟರು.

ನಂತರ ಅವನ ಹೆಂಡತಿಯ ಅಪ್ಪ ಅಮ್ಮ ಬಂದು ಬಾಗಿಲನ್ನು ತಟ್ಟಿದರು. ಇಬ್ಬರು ಒಬ್ಬರೊನ್ನೊಬ್ಬರು ಮುಖ ನೋಡಿ ಕೊಂಡರು ,

ಆದರೆ,
ಅವರನ್ನು  ಕಾಯಿಸಲು ಇಷ್ಟವಾಗದ ಹೆಂಡತಿ, ಕಣ್ಣೀರಿಡುತ್ತ ಬಾಗಿಲನ್ನ ತೆಗೆದು ಬಿಟ್ಟಳು.

ಗಂಡ ಏನು ಮಾತನಾಡಲಿಲ್ಲ

ಕೆಲವು ವರ್ಷಗಳು ಕಳೆದವು ಅವರಿಗೆ ಮೂರು ಗಂಡು ಮತ್ತು ಒಂದು ಹೆಣ್ಣು ಮಕ್ಕಳಿಗೆ ಜನ್ಮ ನೀಡಿದರು

ಹೆಣ್ಣು ಮಗಳು ಹುಟ್ಟಿದ ಸಂತೋಷಕ್ಕಾಗಿ ಮನೆಯ ಬಂದು ಮಿತ್ರರನ್ನು ಕರೆದು ಔತಣವನ್ನು ನೀಡಿದರು.ಔತಣವು ಅಂದುಕೊಂಡ ಹಾಗೆ ಚೆನ್ನಾಗಿ ನಡೆಯಿತು.

ಅಂದು ರಾತ್ರಿ ಹೆಂಡತಿ ಗಂಡನ ಬಳಿ ವಿಚಾರಿಸಿದಳು

ರೀ ನಮಗೆ ಮೂರು ಗಂಡು ಮಕ್ಕಳಾದಾಗ ಯಾವತ್ತೂ ಈ ರೀತಿ ಯಾರಿಗೂ ಔತಣ ನೀಡಿರಲಿಲ್ಲ, ಆದರೆ *ಹೆಣ್ಣು_ಮಗು* ಹುಟ್ಟಿದಕ್ಕಾಗಿ ಎಲ್ಲರನ್ನು ಕರೆದು ಔತಣ ನೀಡಿದಿರಲ್ಲ ,ಅದು ಯಾಕೆ ಎಂದು ನನಗೆ ಅರ್ಥ ಆಗುತಿಲ್ಲ ಎಂದು ಕೇಳಿದಳು.

ಅದಕ್ಕೆ ಗಂಡ ಹೇಳಿದ

ನಾಳೆ ದಿನ  ನಾವು ಬಾಗಿಲನ್ನ ತಟ್ಟಿದಾಗ ನನ್ನ ಮೂರು ಮಕ್ಕಳು ಬಾಗಿಲನ್ನ ತೆಗೆಯದೆ ಹೋದರೂ,

ನನ್ನ *ಮಗಳು* ತೆಗೆಯುತ್ತಾಳೆ ಅದಕ್ಕಾಗಿ....
*Respect_women*

What a women expects from men

Women are the one who comes to me most of the times.
They just are depressed with their life daily routines etc etc.
But fortunately they are the one who is the soul of any family.
May be as MOTHER,WIFE,DAUGHTER.
As a women she can handle many tasks at a time.
may be it anything.
She can always handle a stress much far better than the men's.
As per the psychological studies across the globe.
Then how does she feel low.
​Yes ,surprisingly she is the one who always finds it difficult.
But when and why?

Its not because she cant work under stress.
Its not because she don,t love her work or family.
she balance almost everything in time.
The major concern is the appreciation.
Correct, they feel they are less appreciated.
More neglected.
Less concerned.
Less cared,when she deeply need them.

So all you need to do is often appreciate her even for all small things.
Love her ,apart the seasons and times.
Text her sometimes that U MISS HER.
Say her you are perfect and beautiful.
Praise her when she does something beautiful to you.
When she takes care of you and your family,kids,pets,grocery,home and manages her work too.
let her achieve her dreams.
Help her grow mentally and physically.
If she does some mistakes tell her

personally ,newer make any of her mistakes as public issues.
stay together always.
may not be physically but emotionally.

have a great weekend guys.

http://vsocounselling.weebly.com/blog/why-should-i-go-for-a-counselling

ITS A VERY INTERESTING AND OFF COURSE A GENUINE QUESTION SOME OF MY CLIENTS ASK ME.
WELL TO BE HONEST WE ALL NEED COUNSELLING AT SOME POINT OF OUR LIFE.BUT IT NEWER MEAN THE REQUIREMENT IS ONLY FOR THE PEOPLE WHO ARE MENTALLY OR PHYSICALLY DISTURBED OR DISTRACTED.
I WOULD PUT ON SOME SMALL EXAMPLE TO THIS HERE:
WE ARE @ A CLOTH STORE AND WE FIND SOMETHING INTERESTING AND SUITABLE TO US,WE CARRY THEM AND GO TO TRIAL ROOM...
WE SEE OUR SELF FIT AND FINE IN THE COSTUME AND COMES OUT TO SHOW SOMEONE WHO IS STANDING OUTSIDE(ITS OBVIOUS HUMAN NATURE WE CANT GO SHOPPING ALL ALONE,STILL THERE ARE EXCEPTIONAL).ITS JUST NOT BECAUSE WE AREN'T MATURED ENOUGH TO CHOOSE THE CLOTH.THIS A TYPE OF CONSULTING/COUNSELLING.
NOW TELL ME COUNSELLING IS REQUIRED OR NOT.
THEN THE ANSWER COMES AS A SMILE.
YOU REALLY NO NEED TO GO TO A PROFESSIONAL CONSULTING.
YOU MAY FIND SOMEONE BETTER AROUND FOR INSTANT.
YES! YOU NEED TO CONSULT PEOPLE LIKE US FOR SOME BETTER DECISIONS AND MAJOR IMPROVEMENTS IN LIFE.
AS YOU MAY NOT KNOW THE ADVISER AROUND YOU IS YOUR WELL WISHER OR NOT.

Lets say easy life

Hi everyone,

Since while i have been consulting people across the globe.
There is a lot more to share.
The reason behind the thought was just to help the people go through their difficult time; if any.
hope you all will have good time reading this.

Today lets start with a lower KG lesson.
Lets come from a stage where we weren't having any burdens on our head.
And the life was all laughs and gigs.

" It was a hot summer,a cap seller sat under a tree...had his food and slept for sometime...
There were many monkeys on the tree.they saw the bundle and found interesting and opened them.
they took them and went back on the tree.
when the cap seller got up he saw the monkeys on the tree with his caps.
But he shouted at them but they went higher upon them.
he got frustrated and threw his cap down in anger.
suddenly seeing this, all the monkeys threw their caps down.
the cap seller picked up the caps and tied them in a bundle and went on his way.

what we can learn by this....
1. whenever you do something do it with full dedication and be careful,so that you don,t give a chance for monkeys and get surprised.

2.Newer get frustrated ;otherwise the problem will go higher.
Relax ,think twice, consult someone who is very close to you and are genuine enough.
Suggestion: Best first persons would be your parents or life partner or any of your friends.

3.Anger will not always give you a better life or solution. everyone who puts us in trouble are not always monkeys.

4.Tackle the monkey of life and stay blessed.

5.Remember one law,there is nothing that cant be solved.

Stay blessed.

See you all soon with some great inspiration.

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